Okay, I can't get to sleep, and since I'm lying here thinking about wish lists, I may as well sit down and create the first published "Mikey's Wish List".  For those who haven't been following along, a wish list in this context describes the set of attributes which we would like in a lover, (particularly a spouse in my case, but girlfriend would probably be a good start ;) ).  This isn't a check-list, it's a set of ideals which describe what we are looking for, a positive assertion of what attracts us.